Day 24
I finally have
convinced mom that lil’ man does not need to eat through the night and we are
starting to see improvements. He slept until 2:30 a.m., needing a re-swaddle
and then woke again at 5:30 a.m. for a Binky check; things are getting better.
I got up to make morning coffee, with a sense that things are going to start
getting better.
Today mom left for work with a fresh smile and laugh. I too
was feeling better and whatever had happened, we both needed it badly. The plan
for the day was to drop off a birthday quiche to an friend of ours and then
head up to Grandma C’s house to visit for a bit; we had planned on the usual
Tuesday meeting but she was not feeling well yesterday. We headed out to visit
the birthday girl and she was excited to meet us quickly at the door. I was
thinking I would be simply dropping off the present but we were invited in and
offered coffee. Our hostess asked to hold lil’ man and I happily obliged. About
an hour later, we finally wrapped up our visit – it lasted far longer than
expected. There was another stop in the area I thought to make today too – a
quick introduction of lil’ man to a friendly librarian that had helped me in
the past. We made the stop and Esther was thrilled to see me again and to meet
lil’ man. She immediately went to hold him and hugged him like no other – she
has never had children of her own. She paraded him around the library, showing
him off to all of her co-workers and then introduced us to the children’s room
librarian. We concluded our visit and it was off to Grandma C’s house. The trip
had already been more than planned. Once we arrived, lil’ man was already
expressing his discomfort with all of the action of the day. It was feeding
time but he was not overly interested in anything more than sleep. I managed to
calm him and grandma C got a chance to feed him in quite. She was able to play
with him for a bit and then we lay him down to rest. He went immediately to
sleep, without any fuss. I stayed and visited for a bit and then, car loaded,
grandpa J came home from work. He, of course, wanted to visit with his grandson
too. I took lil’ man back out of the car and unbuckled him from his chair; we
all sat in the front yard of the house. Lil’ man was not happy. I think he may
have felt mislead…home being so close on the horizon. He fussed while grandpa
tried to admire and play with him, but lil’ man wanted nothing to do with it.
So, I reluctantly loaded him back up and we drove off, screaming baby in the
backseat. He woke occasionally, just when the car was stopped; he definitely
wanted to get home to his usual spot. We got home and I placed him to bed
immediately. There was not complaint. Mom got home and I gave her the story of
our day. She was impressed with all of the stops and travel. We ate a quite
meal and concluded our day. We went to bed at 10:00 p.m.